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Just a Like? What You May Be Joining When a Post Mocks Someone

Surah Al-Humazah invites us to notice how contempt can be expressed without a spoken insult.

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A man pauses thoughtfully while looking at his phone in a cafe.

Imagine a clip of someone stumbling over their words during a presentation. The caption makes fun of their intelligence. A friend tags you, and the comments fill with laughing faces.

Your finger moves towards the like button. You did not film the person or write the insult. But what would your reaction add to the way they are being treated?

An insult does not need a full sentence

Surah Al-Humazah opens with a warning:

وَيْلٌ لِكُلِّ هُمَزَةٍ لُمَزَةٍ

“Woe to every backbiter, slanderer,”
Surah Al-Humazah, verse 1

In his explanation of this verse, Ibn Kathir records descriptions of belittling people through speech and through gestures of the hand or eye. The warning reaches beyond a spoken insult. A person can communicate contempt without saying much.

That gives us a useful way to examine online behaviour. A laughing reaction can join the ridicule. A mocking comment adds to it. Forwarding the clip brings someone else into the audience.

These are modern applications of the teaching. What matters is what the post is doing and what your response contributes. A like on a helpful explanation is very different from laughing at someone being humiliated.

What are we assuming about the person?

Surah Al-Hujurat : 11 forbids ridicule and reminds us that those being mocked may be better than those mocking them. It also forbids offensive nicknames.

In our example, one awkward moment becomes a judgement about someone’s intelligence. We know almost nothing about the person, yet the caption invites us to feel superior. The verse gives us a reason to question that invitation before joining in.

A small reaction can carry serious consequences

A short video does not show us the whole situation. Important context may be missing, or an accusation may be false. When a wrongdoer brings news, Allah instructs believers:

فَتَبَيَّنُوا أَنْ تُصِيبُوا قَوْمًا بِجَهَالَةٍ فَتُصْبِحُوا عَلَىٰ مَا فَعَلْتُمْ نَادِمِينَ

“verify ˹it˺ so you do not harm people unknowingly, becoming regretful for what you have done.”
Surah Al-Hujurat, verse 6 (excerpt)

As a post spreads, the person being mocked may face humiliation far beyond the original audience. Before joining in, consider what you are helping to spread.

The Prophet ﷺ warned about bankruptcy on the Day of Judgement:

Hadith
“A person arrives with prayer, fasting and zakat, but has insulted, slandered and harmed others. Their good deeds are given to those they wronged. If their good deeds run out before the wrongs are settled, they are burdened with the victims’ sins and cast into the Fire.”
Sahih Muslim 2581 (summarised meaning)

Choose what your response will add

Before liking, commenting or sharing, ask: “Do I know this is true? Am I joining in someone’s humiliation?”

If a video mocks someone for stumbling over their words, let it stop with you. Choose not to like, comment on or share it.

If you have already added a mocking comment or shared the clip, remove what you can. Ask Allah for forgiveness and stop passing it on. Where you have caused harm, consider how to put it right without drawing more attention to the person.

Understanding a short surah can change what you notice in an ordinary moment on your phone. Think Quran helps you begin learning Quranic words, so you can explore more of the guidance in what you recite.

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